Whew

Time is flying by!!!   I really don't know which direction this post will take.  Lots of stuff going on.  Work is nuts I was just nominated to a new committee.  Blessing or Curse???  Who knows it is too soon to tell... 

On a personal note everybody and their dog is harassing me to propose.

OMG!!!!   I think I should be able choose when I am ready to walk into the minefield or not.  The biggest problem is there is not one person that I can discuss the situation with.

How do you explain what a vicious divorce is like to someone who has not been through it?  The people that I know that have been through it are not helpful.

They fall into two categories:
1.  Their ex is evil and their oxygen should be removed.
2.  I don't want to be by myself so they are looking to jump on the next grenade just to have someone in their lives(this group could also believe their ex is evil).

Neither group is to be trusted for advice...

There is yet another group that perhaps should be split...

The I am blind group.  They either are the ones that are married with or without kids that are miserable.  Thus they believe everyone should suffer with them.  In the same group there are those who believe everyone should be married.th

Excuse me if I just want to make this one count!!!!